Gray wolf (photo courtesy Keweenaw Bay Indian Community game cameras)
Wolf pauses by the gravel roadside, erect, regal. His fur coat gleams in autumn. He looks neither left nor right, yet seems to sense everything in his world.
I creep forward in the car, mesmerized by this creature of the deep woods. His companions increase yearly and some Michigan voters want to ban the wolf hunt. Others desire to manage the creatures, culling the herd, attempting to make sure wolf teeth don’t bite into small dogs.
This one may be a lone wolf. Or his pack might linger just behind the hemlock trees. He might be an alpha, a dominant one, or perhaps one of the male youths. He may be a she. I know little of wolf gender, culture or politics.
Last night around dusk the woods erupted in howls. Dog, coyote, or wolf? We listened intently. Barry thought coyote. I voted for dog and coyote. Dog barks punctuated the swell of yipping voices.
Kinder on the couch
This morning I would like to show you some photos of the grandcats. Last summer I introduced them in their precious kittenhood with this blog post: Did I forget to tell you I’m a grandma now? Or you may have seen Updates and videos of the grandkits written at the end of September a full year ago.
Hard to believe a year has passed, isn’t it? In the life of cats (and I suppose humans) a year is a big deal. Our two furry grandchildren–one named Mango who lives in San Diego with our son and daughter-in-law and one named Kinder who lives in New York City with our daughter–are now about one-and-a-half years old.
Mango on the couch
A couple of blog readers asked me recently: Hey, are you ever going to show pictures of your grandcats again? Obviously, it was time. I emailed the kids and requested said photos. They complied. I also asked for stories.
Good thing we didn’t put away that lawn chair.
It’s a perfect Indian Summer afternoon here in the northwoods. The temperature is a sultry 73 degrees (23 C).
I’m drinking tea on the deck and feeling that delightful moment of grace when summer sings back into our lives for a few short autumnal moments. Even though the hummingbirds are long gone, dragonflies still whirl in the blue sky above.
A few robins linger on the grass, gathering energy to fly south, south, south.
Your tribe of…
Yesterday morning, lazy-eyed and yawning, the coffee cup half-way to these lips, I opened the Kindle Fire and glimpsed this email forward from a friend:
When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with cries of “Me too!” be sure to cherish them. Because those weirdos are your tribe. –Nanea Hoffman
An involuntary grin arose.
Isn’t it an amazing moment in life when someone actually celebrates your quirks? Instead of writing you off as too wild, too weird, too awful, too socially inappropriate?
What would the world be like if we all celebrated quirks instead of judging them (if even in our own minds)?
We’d be quirky world! (Which we are anyway, but wouldn’t it be much more cool if it was combined with kindness and tolerance?)
Posted in September 2014
Tagged approval, friends, inspiration, life, out-of-the-box, personality, quirks, quirky, thoughts, weird, weirdos
I don’t know about you, friend, but I never figured out the answer to that question.
It makes me even wonder if this question has any validity.
As Americans, we change jobs a lot.
It’s been rumored that we often experience seven careers in a lifetime–but that’s just a wild rumor according to this article.
I started out, briefly, in adolescence, working at my dad’s drugstore as a clerk. Followed by an internship as a reporter at a daily newspaper. Succeeded by a stint working as a secretary for a psychologist (I wanted to BE the psychologist but, alas, that did not happen–so far–in this lifetime.)
I am finding Rumi gems hither and yon and re-falling in love with this poetry. As someone with a wee bit of lower back pain this morning, I smiled when accidentally discovering this poem. Suzi Banks Baum sent it to me in a comment back (no pun intended) on this post in January, 2012.
May we all discover the light that exists in pain, in grief, in the “cold and dark” of a moment’s cave.
Wishing you the best, always, my friends.
Lush September garden
Sometimes I truly miss my year-long outdoor blog commitment. Some of you may remember Opening the door, Walking Outside. From Solstice in December, 2008 through December 20, 2009, I spent time outside every day and blogged about it.
It proved both wonderful and challenging, as you can imagine. By mid-January I felt exhausted by the entire endeavor and totally irritated by the *stupid* commitment. Yet, one soldiers on.
As the year progressed–and a reading audience grew–feelings of delight and appreciation for nature expanded. An adoration of blogging blossomed.
As he croons in the song–It was a very good year. Thanks, Frank Sinatra.